Well, a turnaround happened this week. Someone I see weekly paid a compliment on my hair. Usually, not a single soul notices when I do anything with my hair. I’ve changed colour or length and I simply seem invisible.

I do wonder whether my own negativity towards curls, in particular my own has spilt over and other people have perceived it as something to not mention.

This week was different. The conversation was started and before they had paid the actual compliment I butted in with “I know, right! Big well defined curls, aren’t they lovely” She was in awe that I’d not had them “done” or styled. They were just. Me.

Has my healing well and truly begun?

Is this a road of not just hair but how I actually learn to love me? For just being me?

Time will tell…

🌀M🌀